I`ve been married for 40 years, that seems like so long, but then it doesn`t. We have 3 children, 2 girls,39 & 35, a son whom we adopted at 2days old. God Blessed our family with John for 20 yrs. and now he`s in Heaven since 09-30-02. He had a car wreck. I don`t know the why of things like this, but God doesn`t make mistakes. John was a Christian, so that makes it ok. we`ll see him again. Sure miss my youngin !! We have 5 grandchildren plus 1 more. We have custody of John`s son & his brother. Jacob is  5 & Jeremiah is almost 3. We`ve had them almost 3 yrs. It is surely a blessing to be given this awsome responsibility to raise 2 more babies at 58 & 59 yrs. old. But THE END RESULTS IS ALL THAT MATTERS. These boys need Jesus in their lives & they need Him to make it to Heaven one day. Praying for God to strengthen us and guide us along our journey.