Sorry to hear about your aunt. Time heals all wounds. :-) Do you have any problems putting you children to bed? My kids will not go to bed for me. I start at 7:30 read them a book or 2 then tuck them in. They are up till 10:30 different excuses everytime. My husband and I recently separated so I know they are going through a tough time, have any suggestions? sorry to lay this on you but i need some advice bad! Thankyou