I have two grown children. Amanda is 27 and Bill is 19.    I am now living with my mother ,taking care of her. She has short term memory , my father has dementia and lives in a nursing home. I still work as close to full time as possible for Catholic Community Service's, I work 6 days a week plus help my mother. Seems all I do is work!  I feel very fortunate to have a job, as well as helping my mother. My daughter helps her too !   I really struggled to get my work hour's..took along time.  All is well for now.   Have a happy day !!