Hello ladies, My name is Kathy.I am 31 and engaged to the man of my dreams. We started dating Dec 2004 and he asked me to marry him this past December.WOW, has it been three years already..LOL  I have a wonderful 13 yr old son, Xzaveion and  my fiance has a precious 5 year old daughter, Kela. I have to say that being a mother is the greatest joy in life. I work full-time and attend school part-time. I would love to go full-time, but there are bills to be paid. I have a son so I have to put my responsibilities in order. Anyway, I was on here once before under a different screen name. Some things happened and I chose to close my page...Well, I am back. I really enjoyed cafemom and just couldn't stay away...I would love to meet more new people..