UPDATE:11/14/08.................HI FRIENDS....it is so good to be back. I have been and still are on a very painful and excrutiating past 3 months. I am now seperated, BUT holding fast to GOD'S promises, and praying daily, hourly for HIS WILL TO BE DONE IN MY MARRIAGE, LIFE, AND FUTURE.

Now...my 10 things list.........

1.I love JESUS, WITHOUT HIM, NOTHING IS POSSIBLE, AND WITH JESUS, ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE!

2. I still and always will LOVE MY HUSBAND---u can't just throw away 22 years of love and devotion.no.

3. I love my 21 year old son Aaron....he is my rock ..after JESUS...he and my future daughter-in-law Kristina have been by my side and have helped get me through the toughest time in all our lives......Aaron is an amazing, Christian man, a true gift from GOD to me and his dad.

4. I love my cat...Rupert...he stayed with me, and my other cat went with my husband to where he now resides...and I miss her terribly...her name is WHITE SOX....MISS U SWEETIE TWEETIE!

5. I LOVE MY ENDURING LONGSUFFERING BEST FRIENDS OF 32 YEARS, TERRI AND HER HUBBY RICK.....thank u for not taking sides Rick...I know how hard it is, with you being Marty's best friend and all....Cafemom friends....I SO LOVE ALL OF YOU TOO...U STILL CONTINUED TO ENCOURAGE AND PRAY FOR ME WHILE I WAS GONE.

6. NOW THE HATES......there are many, BUT GOD TELLS ME TO PRAY FOR MY ENEMIES....WHICH I WILL,,,,MORE OFTEN NOW.

7. I hate long lines, people who constantly and rudely chat loudly on their cell phones....so old school......privacy rocks....

8. Liberals....I am the only CHRISTIAN out of 6 siblings, and a mother...so I am surrounded by liberals everyday!!   STILL GOTTA LOVE THEM THOUGH!

9. IN-LAWS......GOD help mr to never ever be like the hypocritical ones I have had for the past 22 years.....their true colors showed up with a vengeance.....BUT..STILL GOTTA LOVE AND PRAY FOR THEM TOO........

10. LAST BUT NOT LEAST......I HATE NOT HAVING ENOUGH TIME IN THE DAY TO DO EVERYTHING!!  THAT IS WHY OUR PRIORITIES DO MATTER........I MUST ASK GOD EVERYDAY FOR GUIDANCE ...