i'm 43 and married  to rob (18 years). I have 3 kid's Kevin is 23 and lives in colorado which is where I wish we still lived. I'm very homesick. I dont like tennessee it's too hot and humid and there's no snow. kelly is 21 and is stationed in texas at fort hood. she has been in the army since she was 18 and is getting ready to go back to iraq for her second tour. i am very proud of her. joey is 11 and my surprise child who brings me so much joy every day. he keeps me young.