My husband and i started dating in high school and right after graduation we found out i was pregnant with our first child. Now a little over 10 years later we have a total of 4 children who keep us very busy. It is so hard to connect with a lot of people my own age, or even my husband's friends' wives since they either have no children at all or are just beginning their own families. Don't get me wrong, my kids are a blessing, but it is very hard. I love my family and my friends that I do have. I work a full time job, that doesn't pay enough, my husband also works full time at a job where he is underappreciated and underpaid as well. My life revolves around my kids and their activities, my husband, my job, and my house and it seems i never have enough time, but I feel that must be how most moms feel.