My name is Wendy, I am 32 years old. I was born and raised in Springfield, MA.   I have been married to my husband Ricky since September 5, 2004.  We had our son Aiden August 23, 2006.  When he was born the umbilical cord was wrapped around his neck twice so he was in the NICU for the first 5 days of his life, then he went home with us. I was working as a day care teacher with Infants and now I am a Stay at home Mom.  I love being able to be with my son to care for him myself, but it's been really hard finding a job, because we can't afford day care.  I love metal music and other music too.  My favorite bands are Deftones, Korn, Spineshank, L7, Juiana Hatfield, Papa Roach, Hatebreed, All that Remains, and many others. :D  My son loves playing outdoors, playing ball, running, collecting sticks. He is all boy. We recently moved to our own apartment in Somerset, Mass, after living with the In-law's in Swansea, Mass, for several months.  It's really awesome actually.  And Cafemom rules.