I'm sure that this will probably change, but I am a 1st time mom to Charlie, who was born 10-22-11. He, my husband and my extended family are my world. I am of the opinion that as long as you are not abusive, you've consulted your child's physician, and that your child is healthy and happy, no parenting style is "wrong." I also feel like we should be here to listen and support each other, never to bash or put others down.