I'm a poet and I teach yoga and college writing (these careers are presented in order from least to most lucrative). Because I've been so focused on suceeding in these myriad dream jobs, I haven't thought much about planning my family. I'm 36 and just found out I'm pregnant with my first. This was not planned (oops), but both my boyfriend and I are elated. I understand the statistics of early pregnancy, so I'm not ready to share this pregnancy with my friends. I'm so thankful for this group...for being able to be in the conversation of birth without getting my friends too excited.