Im a single mom of 2 teenagers, Carl and Sarah, they drive me crazy (yes im getting counseling for this craziness!!) I luv my kids but I also luv my time alone. I am working on myself.....building up my self confidence and self esteem. All thru my life I have really lacked in these two very important areas. I just turned 45 and it is time to improve on ME for a change and in doing so hopefully it will rub off on my teens whom deff. have the same problem. Hopefully cafemom advice will help me start enjoying life a bit more!! Please share ur thoughts & feelings all u like. arls