I have been a sahm since I became pregnant with my daughter , who will be 15 in May. With a husband that worked nights most of our marriage I learned to survive and do for myself and my kids more than most. I can honestly say that I am not a "clean freak" because I learned early on what you miss with your kids if you are always worried about cleaning. I also love sports and mechanics, reading and cooking. We have a boat and a show car which occupies a lot of our time in the warmer months.