First - I am technically not a Mom, unless you count all of my four legged babies... I don't. I mean - I love them more than anything, but I don't rock them or sing them to sleep, and they still haven't learned to talk. My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for a hundred years and I am now finally being proactive. We are in the middle of our very first in vitro cycle right now. I am frazzled and hopeful and about a million other emotions, too!!!