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But I am here for you if you need me... Feel free to send me any messages and I will help out as much as I can....

I will continue to keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers...

But he is holding us, crying with us, and there with us every step of the way.... I like that feeling better, rather then the feeling that God is "picking" on us, throwing things at us, seeing how low he can get us....

It basically takes that reasoning away, and shows a whole new way to think of things.... Such as God is crying with you when things like this happen, not that he made it happen, but that it happened because the world is not perfect, that our bodies fail us, that things happen....

I don't know what you believe in, but so many people will tell you that this was "meant to be", there is a "reason for everything".... I read a book called, "Why Bad Things Happen To Good People", by an author named Kutchner, or something like that....