Okay first off I am married... to a man. A wonderful man the supports the fact that I love woman. No he doesn't have to be part of my love life with my female partners, but I have to admit that there are times that I dream of meeting that one perfect person that could join our family full.
I guess you can say I want my cake and eat it too. In other words I want a husband and a wife. (and if they hit it off emotional and physically then I have indead found the perfect one)