I am a mother of 3 and a mom to so many others. I have 2 added kids when their mother died. I have a really bad case of RA arthritis.I am now on disability from work. Now I have 3 beautiful grandkids.They are my life.My oldest son is also with a girl who has his youngest son and another two kids. They will all be part of family some day, maybe. Mind you I still watch alot of tv...yes I like reality tv. I love all three kinds of law and order. I also watch "All my children" and "The guiding light". I have been watching both since I was in high school. I helped my daughter out with her son when she became a mother at the age of 16. My husband and I are closest to him since he lived with us for the first 23 months of life. My oldest has one son and is dating a girl with one little boy. My younger son has been dating his girlfriend for 5 years now, but they are not getting married until 2009. He recently graduated form ITT and just started his dream job. I am on disability because of my RA and am getting ready for yet another replacement surgery. The doctors seem to think I will have at least five more in my future. They cannot control the spread or damage of my RA. So like I said my life is now my kids, grandkids, tv and oh yes reading.]