Im a 23 year old single mom with a young son and daughter. Motherhood is the best thing to have ever happened to me and I believe really saved my life. I had lost my father a year before my son was born and was having a very hard time dealing with it, but everyday that I look at my son I see my father in him and I know in a way he is still with me. I am not with my daughters father anymore, he actually is the poorest excuse for a father I have ever seen and we are going through a terrible custody battle now. He walked out and left us but then realized he would have to pay child support so now he is trying to get full custody to avoid having to pay for anything. Great guy....but anyways we are all better off without him and I can do this on my own. One thing I really hate is when people judge me or automatically think horrible things about me because I am so young with 2 kids,