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  • Location: Madison, WI
  • Soon to be Step Mom to 3 kids
  • Interests: recipes & cooking, travel & vacations, weight loss, depression
  • Last Login: 08/17/14
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Kids

  • Girl
    AP 17 years old
  • Boy
    JP 20 years old
  • Girl
    VP 26 years old
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    I am engaged to be married in June 2015. I am 46 years old and have never been married and do not have any children of my own.  My fiance has 2 step kids and three of his own.  I am struggling on every level.  The youngest is 17.5 and when I met her she was 13 and I thought my dreams had come true, my family and the opportunity to mentor and raise a young girl into a young lady.  I could not have been more wrong!  She hates and resents me for taking away her dad's attention, the middle child has 2 children of her own works part time and the father of her boys is a drug addict and finally the oldest of his three kids is a heroin addict.  The stress is mounting, the financial hand-outs is overwhelming me and we have polar opposite methods of raising kids - he buys them and gives them everything, My value base is work for it!  I am so exhausted and just want to stop everything.  The rub, when his kids are happy and content then and only then do we find our own happiness and contentment with each other.

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