I guess I'll just say the basics. I'm 22 with soon to be 3 kids, and a wonderful man whom only hasn't married me yet because we don't have the money for a ring or wedding.  I grew up in a life that was given to me so when I got pregnant at 19 I was suddenly thrown into the real world with very very little experience, thank God I had Jason to take care of me but I'm still having trouble adjusting to being a mom, a wife, a homemaker, and being poor.