Hello my name is Tammy and  I am a mother three and married to who I like to think is my solemate.  I live in a town of about 2000 where we moved to about  3 years ago. We have decided to make this our home and for the most part are very satisfied.  I am a stay at home mom and have been since my little girl was born in 2003.  I have a licensed daycare and love kids!  Prior to that I was CASA director for a 3 county region in southwest NE.  I stepped down because of some personal issues and when I was blessed with having a second child.  I have always worked with children, mostly abused and neglected.  I have as well worked with low income and hispanic families that are here with a work visa from Mexico.  Anyway you look at it I love to help people.  I figure if I can't put my life on the right path I might as well help someone else! Back shortly after I received my GED in 1990 I was married to my high school sweetheart.  Which I did get married and my daughter who is now 18.  I was divorced 4 years later, which I believe was because we were very young and just wanting to do which I believe was the right thing to do.  Now 13 years later here I am and thanking God for the strength to get where I am and be blessed with the three children I have.  I would like to say my marriage is where I would it to be, but it needs a lot of work which I turning to God to help me. In a nut shell I need someone to talk to that can maybe give some type of direction to go in.   I was told that God does not give you more then you can handle, and not everything is meant to be but somerthing good will come out of it.  What!  I don't know how much more I can take.  I have gone thru 8 years of physical, mental and emotional abuse hoping it would, but not yet. Thinking I could shelter my kids from it.  Boy was I wrong.Hopefully, or should I say I expect to meet a lot of smart and courageous women that will give me the strength.