Thanks for the babyshower reply. I think it is absurd to have someone insist on trowing you a party and not help pay for it. Instead like you said you can be getting what you need for the child. I don't expect anyone to provide for my child so I just saw no point. I did get a travel system and a few things from family which is nice but I just said forget the shower. Funny everyone acted sooo surprised..lol

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