im ashley, ima 21 year old single mama of 3. i have a 4 year old girl, 2 year old boy, and my micro preemie who will be 1 in a week. ive been through more then most can imagine in just this past year alone. my baby spent 9 months in the hospital and had many issues. hes now home with a gtube, tracheostomy and home ventilator. everyday i watch him struggle and it just amazes me more and more how strong he truly is. im a very positive person and i try and give good advice. im from upstate new york.