I'm plain spoken. I say what is on my mind. This doesn't make me mean. I lost alot of friends after the loss of my daughters, some people just don't get it! Friends are important to me. I am a TRUE friend and don't turn my back on people. And I can't stand for someone to turn their back on me. I have wanted to be a mommy my whole life, and now i finally get to be, just not the way I expected. But the one thing I have learned over the years is: If you wanna hear God laugh... tell him your plan!!!!!!!