I'm a mother of two wonderful boys. I'm beleive that breast milk is the best milk. But that is just my opinion. And we all know about those. I do the whole co-sleeping with my boys. Haven't tried to fight since daddy works nights. But One day I would love to have my bed back to myself. I don't believe pushing your children to hard on anything. They will try it on their own when they are good and ready. I do believe in one firm rule spare the rod spoil the child. No I don't hit my kids with rods. But when the scary voice or time out isn't working a good tap on the diaper send the message No right to home. Well at lest for the 2 hours with my oldest. God help me with that one. Stubborn to the core. No, no is the most used word in this household. I'm as laid back as can be living in a house full of boys.