My daughter is going into 8th grade and she is not in the best school but she wants to finish 8th with her friends and then we see what to do by the end of the school year. He has been gone since May 12, and wont be home until Dec. 8 or later... I just had major surgery and he tried to come home...I knew they wouldnt let him but he tried anyway. I dont have any help so its been very hard on the 3 of us.

Hi there. I see that your husband is deployed. Mine will be soon. How long has he been gone? Your 12 year old ... what grade is she starting this year? My son (12) will be starting jr. high (7th) ... and I'm a little nervous about the transition.

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