I am a new mom who never planned on having children.  I met my first true love/lover when I was 18 and we dated for 2 years.  We went our separate ways and 14 years later, he showed back up.  It wasn't exactly love at second site because a lot of time had passed.  Two months, yes, two months after being back together on Father's Day I took the dreaded test.  It was positive.  I didn't know to laugh, cry, scream or pass out.  I chose to cry.  All the while Fred was estactic.  We live in a one bedroom apartment and money was less than ideal.  I now have a seven month old who is my entire life.  I was born to be Spencer's mommy.  He has brought me more joy than I even knew existed.  Fred is frustrated because he's been told usually the first thing a baby says is "daddy"  when Spencer was 6 months old he started saying "mama"  Smart Baby =)  He know's what's up !