I am 24.  I have 2 kids and one on the way.  This is baby #3, but my 4th pregnancy.  My kids are my life.  Without them i do not think i would coupe.  My son is my little man.  He is very hyper he is so full of energy.  He can not have a nap all day and still be going at 3 Am.  I know some of you know how that feels.  My daughter is the one who made all my believes in things change. Both of my kids were premies but she was different.  When i had Naudia everything was alright until i gave birth.  She was rushed to the NICU (Neonatal Intensive Care Unit) that was fine.  It was a week later when they told she is not doing to well and had to be rushed to Riley Hospital for Children.  They saved my daughters live.  She changed my attitude toward alot of things cause she made me think if this little bitty baby only a week and 2 days old can have heart failure and still strive to survive why is everyone else out there gripping.  These little babies in there just makes you wake up and say to your self my life is really not as bad as i put it out to be.  When Naudia went in i did not have faith in god and i was starting to give up on myself cause my husband was out doing god knows what with who ever in the world.  For some reason it did not bother me that he did not want to be around me or our daughter.  So i said to myself I have to be strong not only for me and Little miles but for this baby i just had that is having a rough start to life.  I turned everything around started ignoring everything my husband was doing and focusing all of my attention on my daughter.  Eventually my husband noticed that i was not bothered with his self pitty and worrying more for our daughter than him. She sould of been the most important thing but not to him.  Now we are all doing great i am still with him and my daughter loves her father more than life its self.  She has had about 10 surgury's and many more to come.  Sorry if this to long but i just wanted to shed some light on someone if they are going through something similar.  When they say If you ignore the guy he will chase dont chase him its true.