I love a great debate.  I respect other opinions.  If I don't have something nice to say than I will say nothing.  If you want my true opinion I will give it to you.  I would never intentionally hurt anyone's feelings.  I am a great listener.  The number one thing to know about me is that I can to listen.  If you need a friend to just listen I am here.   I think freedom of speech is our greatness gift in this country, even if what is being said isn't how WE feel it's everyone's right to speak their mind. I am the second oldest of 6 kids My sister is older than me by 2 years and then I have 4 brothers.  My parents are divorced which is a good thing.  My mother is battling cancer but doing it her way.  Frankly she is living on borrowed time.  I care about her, and I love her but I will never understand her.I struggle with anxiety that stems from a dysfunctional up bringing.  I have become very successful and happy in my world.  I continue to push myself to learn new things.  I have the best job in the world.  I am moving into the IT area of my company but I will continue to work in the Quality Department as a Systems Administrator.  The people I work with are like a second family.  I truly love and care for all of them.I expected motherhood would be easier.  Not easy, just easier than it has been.  I thought my Dh would be more involved there is no "pre-test” for that.  I thought my parents would help more, not cause me to have more to do. I thought marriage would make me feel less lonely but we really have a hard time finding things we like to do together.  He goes one way and I go the other.  That use to be ok when we were single but now more times than not I’m with the kids and he is of "making money" I guess I shouldn't complain about that but I do.I consider myself religious, I believe in God.  That said, I respect everyone's freedom to express their religion as well.  If I could go back to school and study anything just for the learning experience alone it would be religions and why people believe what they do. So this is me.  Feel free to contact me at anytime.