I work in retail as I love to work with people. So I work a lot and do not have much time for going out. With my kids being older the finding time for play dates is kind of out. Plus they are older so that means they already know everything and don't need me anyway (hahahaha). So I really like the idea of the internet and being able to connect with other moms who are going through the same thing as myself with their evil kids or already went through it knowing that my evil kids will get theirs and wake up perfect one day. Of course it is cool to be able to tell a young mom that she is going to be okay, I like hearing from a mom who was there that I'll be okay. I just love cafe mom as I am learning about other moms and am able to use this as a creative outlet for some of the crazy stuff that happens in my life or that my kids bring up. I came across this cafemom site at like 1 am one day and became fascinated with this site and love the women that I have built friendships with. I love that I am able to have friends here and build a business and have fun on this site. But also I want to talk with other moms who wear many different hats and find out how they are able to balance out work outside of the home, work at home, family like having kids that are older, and friends, and experiencing life.