I am a rock star. My kids think so. My friends think so, and mainly my clients think so. I am a Hairstylist. Mom first, hairstylist second, wife third. Is that out of order? Well, that's the order and i'm stickin to it. I have little kids and they are the best thing that has ever happened to me. I do envy mothers with older kids that aren't stuck to their hip all the time, but I suppose i'll get there after I pay my dues. Yes, I am enjoying them, (even though they are destroying my house while I type), I must say though, my main goal is to not lose my identity to my family. That will make me the happiest I can be, which will make my kids happy as a result. I act like a dad sometimes. I try to go and do things for myself, as an individual without feeling guilty that my kids aren't with me. Men do this every day. So I say, don't forget who you were before the kids ladies, you will need her someday. Your kids will grow and have their own lives and leave you in the dust. I will still have myself to hang out with when that happens.