I am very proud mother of three teenagers-they have not turned out to bad considering I have raised them all on my own for the last 18 years with very little help along the way-my family has been about all the help I have been able to depend on all of these years along with several very close friends. I have lost three children to stillbirth and miscarriages. My oldest daughter has a slight case of Autism, my middle daughter is my rebel, and my youngest and only son has some very bad health problems. I have been divorced three times-can seem to find the Mr. Right. I love to read and write. I hold my family as my most important thing in my life. I am very good at listening to people and their problems. I work full-time and I will be taking online classes full-time for Criminal Justice/Homeland Security. I worked in Law Enforcement for 10 years and enjoyed every minute. I hate it when men try to control and dominate me. I am very independent and very outspoken. My friends depend on me for advice about everything you can think of . I have a very open and honest relationship with all three of my children-hiding things from them is not how we do things in our house-I honestly believe a home is for free expressions. I am always looking to make new friends. I love elephants. I collect angels and roses. I believe every child is a gift from God and that you should hold them as close as you can for as long as they will let you.  I have recently married for the fourth time and it has been a little rough-I am hoping that this is my Mr. Right and that we will be together for a very long time. I hate men who abuse their women-I have been abused in the past. My new husband is not like that though thank goodness.