My name is Tonia and I am 21 years old. 18 days before I turned 21 on Oct 26,2006. I had a beautiful little girl. Her name is Lillian Marie Eschman. I named her after my great grandmother Lillian Marie Sobers. Being a first time mother is a wonderful job. Hard at times, but it is all worth it. I am a single mother and I loving it. I don't need a man in my life telling be how to run things. Living day by day taking care of my baby girl is what I live for. A year ago I didn't think I would have a child. I wanted to go to school and become a police officer first. I still do, however it is going to take a little longer than what I thought. As long as I get there someday. It will be worth it in the end. I have a long road a head of me, and I am willing to get there. Even if it takes me forever.