If you love to show off your little cutie- I've got a group that you should check out! Please come and join "2008 and 2009 Babies Photo Contests" We are kind of a new group, but we need members who want to participate and have fun! It's a great place to meet other mommy's with little ones around the same age. Please stop by and check it out!

http://www.cafemom.com/group/98624

Call it double standard I know it is not PC I do not think women should be in the millitary if they are not allowed into combat , If they get special exceptions based on gender ? I am not confined in my opinions to what is the popular view
I dont hate a woman who choses to join , I just don't think it is a good thing , I don't support or encourage it.

Hey from Honest Mama's, we miss you so please come back to chat with us and tell us about your new addition.

"my baby needs a mom more than another sibling" The part you are forgetting is that the baby you are preggo with is ALSO YOUR CHILD, just because your oldest was first doesnt mean it is more important, so you are saying that if you were preggo that your second baby doesnt deserve to live?

Going to read it now. Thanks for your comments, the boys are so sweet and Tegrim is already a GREAT big brother. I hope they are good friends, along with their cousin who is a month older than Douglas.