Hi! Whatever your state requires for Kindergarten or first grade is the best time to send her, unless you need or want to send her to Pre-K before that time. It's absolutely okay to cry on her first day. You might want to talk about this on the Toddlers & Preschoolers group: http://www.cafemom.com/group/preschool

You could talk to others trying to lose weight in our Healthy Moms group:
http://www.cafemom.com/group/110703?ct=live_search
and you can get advice for your marriage in our Love & Marriage group:
http://www.cafemom.com/group/112285?ct=live_search

I definitely think you should have a talk with her.

That's a tough one. Have you tried sitting down with him to talk about who does what share of the housework? You might also get suggestions on the Advice for Moms group, too: http://www.cafemom.com/group/33201

Hi! You might try asking about lunches for your 2yo and for yourself on one of our food groups, too, such as the Meal Planning group: http://www.cafemom.com/group/112067/
Let me know if you have any questions. I'm happy to help:)