Hey girl!

I sent you a message on myspace last night and hope that you got it? I know that you have to be scared ( I can't imagine). If you do consider adoption just know that you will get the help that you need. I am not the pushy type at all. I am concerned about you and the baby and what you think is best. Only YOU can make that decision. It will be the hardest one that you ever have make and maybe ever will, so you need to really think about what you are capable and willing to do. Don't think for a minute that if you do go the adoption route that you are giving up because you will be doing the most selfless act that you can. I think to this day that Ashton's birthmother is an angel, a hero. Without her I wouldn't have my baby! If you just want someone to talk to I am a good listener. I can't truely understand how you are feeling but I do understand feeling scared, losing hope, and not knowing what to do next. Please ask me anything and I will do my best to answer your questions. You will be in our prayers.

Gina

spencerandgina May. 22, 2008 at 9:51 AM

You are the only one that can make the decision to keep your baby your the one that will live with the decision for the rest of your life. I was 17 when I got pregnant the first time, my mom wanted me to have an abortion but I new that there was no way I could do that. I chose to keep my baby and I did what I needed to for me and my daughter I will tell you it wasn't easy but things worked out. By the time I was 19 I was on baby number three I'm a mom of 5 at 30 and doing just fine. You need to decide if you are ready to be a mom on your own.

sjdchbkr May. 23, 2008 at 1:36 AM