God Help Me! My inlaws are coming!!!

  • May 22, 2008 at 4:52 PM by JENNIFERKNIGHT
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Hi there!

   My mother and sister in Law are on their way up from L.A.  I know that only trouble will come from this.  I have the Mother in law from hell.  When she is here I have to lock our bedroom door or she will destroy all of my pretty bras and panties.  She redecorates my house, because I do not know were to put anything.  My house is never clean enough ( I am taking a break right now! LOL!)  and she doesn't know that we are pregnant with our 3rd child.   She is always looking to pick a fight and to play the victim.  She lives her life through her kids.   I would love to keep her out of our house, but that will not work. She thinks she has the right to do what ever she wants too.   The worse things she has done was:  When my husband and I were married for like a year & a half my father and mother in law came up for a visit.  They were up for the weekend,  and that early Sat. Morning ( like around 2:00 AM) my husband & I decied to make love.  About 10 min into it I heard " GET THE FUCK OFF MY SON!!!!" I came too and noticed that she was standing in our room looking at us.  ( Our door was shut when we went to bed.)  She flipped on the lights ran to my husbands side of the bed and asked him if I hurt him and told me that I was a slut and a whore!  When I told her to get out of our room she told me that I had no right to tell her what to do!!!   This went on for over an hour. Then she went to the bath room and then went to bed.  She continued to call me bad names for the rest of the weekend.

She also when my oldest was 6 weeks old left him outside in his stroller outside in a open air mall. Because she didn't feel like take him in.  Never said she was sorry about that or that she did anything wrong!   She had the nerve to tell me the next day that if I allowed him to" MY 6 WEEK OLD SON COULD TAKE CARE OF HIM SELF!" And that I was babying him to much!

Do any of you have a mother in law like this!!  How do you deal with her!!  Truly I would like to be friends with her!   But she wants her own way all the time.

Anyway it is back to cleaning the house!

Have a good 3 day weekend!

Jennifer!

Tags: mother in law

Comments:

swtan...

You poor thing. Does your husband support you when they are there? I'm still wondering where we can all ship our mil's to so they stay out of our  hair and can irritate each other. I guess they're still looking for an island big enough to accomodate all the mils. Good luck this weekend.

swtangl23 May. 22, 2008 at 4:56 PM

karri...
I would get a hotel for this mother in law from hell or better yet, board the windows, lock the doors, put a quarintity sign on the door and take my family to a hotel while they are in town. She sounds awful. If you have to let her in your home I would put some exlax in her cocoa and then feign sympathy when she complains of diareha and then while acting all innocent drive her to the hospital where they'll give her IV's to replenish her fluid loss.

karriewren May. 22, 2008 at 5:02 PM

calli...
Hang in there mine lives with me.. I havent came up with a solution yet but when I do you will be the first to tell...

callicrew May. 23, 2008 at 11:24 AM

Magno...

Wow! I thought my Jewish MIL was bad. But- she is not "allowed" to stay overnight with us anymore!

MagnoliasMomma Sep. 4, 2008 at 11:58 PM

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