Over the years I have been very supportive to all of my friends no matter what direction they took, decision they made, or consequence they suffered, I was just simply there FOR THEM. I think that is how it should be. You could ask anyone who has crossed my path I have never hurt anyone of my friends. But as I have aged I have noticed how many have walked all over me, hurt me, treated me horribly for their benefit.....yet I was still there for them....I think I have just woken from a "dumbass" comma to come to the realization that there are a WHOLE lot of fake people out there. Sure they may be having the time of their life, nice homes, fancy cars, money, but who did they hurt to get their happiness along the way. I must conclude that I would rather be dead broke, live in a small place, drive an affordable vehicle, and continue to be true to those I have friendships with than to ever be the people they were. GOD works in mysterious ways and gives gifts when you least expect them..I just don't believe those gifts come in the form of money and material possessions....it's true worth, happiness, and the knowing that you can love someone and mean it without needing it in return. sorry ladies...just needed to vent..bless all of the angels out there who sit on the shoulders of their loved ones to lend them strength in times of need....you are truly amazing

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jenz450
May. 23, 2008 at 3:56 PM

Good post...I can relate.

Alot of people suck the life out of you. Don't be angry, get wise and change your way toward them....DON NOT CHANGE WHO YOU ARE THOUGH. That is the trick. If you are kind natured, stay that way. Don't allow someone to take that beautiful quality from you.

Money....Alot of people who have alot to show "material" wise have a lot less, internally. There is a price for those wonderful joyful toys, Yes, THEY COULD HAVE THEM. It fills the void "temporarily"...

Enjoy YOU and stay real. There is one thing about me and my husband. We stay the same, if we have a dollar or a million, the next person wouldn't know it....WE KNOW WHAT MONEY DOES TO PEOPLE...HUGS to you...sunshine...

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