My two boys haven't been coming around because of my husband.They called me on mother's day and all my husband can think to say is why are they wanting anything to do with you since they don't call every week. I said it doesn't matter why they have started calling.I want to get involved with them again.

What do you think.Should I stay out of their lives or should I just pick up the pieces and start over.

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ruthi...
May. 27, 2008 at 6:15 AM Most definitely pick up the pieces and go on! HANDS DOWN Mom! They need and love you just as you need and love them! You all have already missed out on more than you ever should have if they had been gone only an hour. Trust your instincts and get those boys back...NOW...Good luck Mom and I soooo wish you and those boys lots of love & happiness.....Awwwe, this makes me so sad for all of you.

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mamafor6
May. 27, 2008 at 6:18 AM   Pick up the peices. It does not matter what anyone else says you are still their mom and that is something that will always be. Good luck I hope for the best for all of you.

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MSuga...
May. 27, 2008 at 6:25 AM Never stop trying

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runaw...
May. 27, 2008 at 6:34 AM Pick up the pieces.

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Jdsm0mmy
May. 27, 2008 at 9:29 AM definitely pick up the pieces and move forward. they are a part of you and who you are. my father wasnt apart of my life for the longest time but since we have been in contact over the past couple years i would rather that things be the way they are now rather than shutting him out after him not being around for so long and because of his presence my son will know his grandfather. i couldnt be any happier.

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