Ok, so I've been trying really hard to get together with one of my girlfriends and everytime we make plans, she seems to cancel. Our sons are 5 weeks apart (hers is 16 mo and mine is 15 mo) and love to play together and we live super close to each other. I don't have hardly any free time, but usually when I do I try to call and ask her about getting together. Now, she is pregnant and due in about a month and I know she is gonna be super busy with the new baby plus the toddler so I was kinda trying to get some time in before the baby comes. I feel like I've lost my best friend. Our lives got so busy and now I barely even know her. Her fiance ran into my husband today and basically said they are having all kinds of relationship problems and he has been sleeping on the couch. I just feel like I should be there for her but she won't let me. Its been getting worse over the past few years. We used to do everything together and then we met our guys and ever since we have drifted apart. She has tons of friends so I doubt she even misses me, but I don't have any friends. I hardly have time to make new friends, I mean, I have 3 very active boys... the only people I see are at the ball fields or whatever. I don't know... I just miss her. Its bothering me really badly. I feel like I could deal with a lot of the other stuff going on in my life if I still had her to talk to.... I don't know, it just sucks.

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Jun. 1, 2008 at 12:07 AM I sorry you feel that way.. Sometimes friends just drift apart, just because of interests. They change as we grow older..Try to find some new friends, and still keep in touch with her.. She has her hands full, alright... This just may be a time that she has other things on her mind..I'm sure it's nothing negative towards you..... .. Don't lose hope, but also, find some other friends too.. You can do it..

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