I REALLY CAN'T EXPLAIN HOW  I AM REALLY FEELING RIGHT NOW. ALLS I KNOW IS THAT I CAN'T GET RELAXED. I HAVE TO KEEP DOING SOMETHING. I AM TIRED OF PEOPLE USING ME AND MY HUSBAND FOR MONEY, AND FIXING THEIR SHIT. THEY DON'T CALL ON US UNLESS THEY WANT SOMETHING. I WILL HELP ANY ONE, BUT DON'T TREAT ME LIKE I'M STUPID (OR MY MAN). I THINK I WOULD FEEL BETTER IF I TELL THESE DUMD A** -MOTHER F****** OFF.  EVERY WEEK SOMEONE WILL CALL AND ASK US TO HELP WITH THEIR BILLS, LIKE WE DON'T HAVE OUR OWN. BUT WHEN MY HUSBAND ASK FOR A LITTLE HELP?(WHICH IS VERY RARE) I ONLY HAVE 10or 20DOLLARS. BUT ASK US FOR 100.00 OR MORE. HE IS THE ONLY ONE WORKEN. I GET SSI BECAUSE  I CAN'T WORK DUE TO RODS IN MY BACK AND MS. AND WHAT REALLY PISSES ME OFF. THEY DON'T CALL TO CHECK AND SEE IF I AM O.K. ....THE ONLY TIME THEY CALL OUR HOUSE IS WHEN HE IS HERE, THEN THEY WILL ASK HOW IS LISA DOING. I TOLD HIM DO NOT TELL THEM ANY THING ABOUT ME. IF THEY WANT TO KNOW THEY CAN CALL HERE ON THE DAYS YOU ARE WORKEN. HE ONLY WORKS 3 DAYS OUT THE WEEK(WEEK END SHIFT AT WALMART DISTRIBUTION) HE MAKES GOOD MONEY AND THEY KNOW THIS AND THEY ALSO KNOW HIS FREAKEN PAY DAY. I BEEN HOLDEN BACK BECAUSE IF I GET NASTY AND START CUSSING PEOPLE OUT??? IT WILL START A BIG FAMILY MESS, AND HE DOESN'T WANT THAT. HE DOESN'T LIKE TO ARGUE. ME ON THE OTHER HAND I WILL TELL YOU ABOUT YOURSELF AND KEEP GOING ON WITH MY LIFE. BUT THESE BITCHES DOESN'T SEE WHAT EFFECT THIS IS HAVING ON ME AND MY HEALTH. BUT THEY ARE GETTING READY TO FIND OUT.WOULD I BE WRONG FOR TELLING THEM OFF???? ANY ADVISE WILL BE GREATFUL. LEE-LEE

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tryin...
Jun. 1, 2008 at 2:35 PM The more you let ppl run you over, the more they will do it. My HD is always saying if you offer and inch they will take a mile. It's the truth too. You give one person $20 then the next time they come around it will be for $40 and the story will be slightly worse. Pretty soon it's for a hundred because, of course, the soooo desprately need your help - again. They don't care if you have it to give or not. They knew when they spent their funds that you would pick up the slack. If you don't put a stop to it, it will keep going on and on. They have got it in their head that you will pick up any responsiblities they had and just didn't want to address. You are not their parents. They have got to grow up and you have to be stern with them because if you even slightly appear that you are unsure about telling them off, they will just keep asking. You have to be super bitch because it's the only way to end it. Otherwise you might make a trade. If they want the money now, they have to come over and fix something or go get something for you, ect. NOT AFTER they get the money or you'll never see them again. It's just a child. Good luck %%-

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tryin...
Jun. 1, 2008 at 2:37 PM

It's just *like* a spoiled child, I mean.

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gusti...
Jun. 1, 2008 at 3:10 PM there is away to put a end to it no we dont have it and sorry i cant and will not help you is what my dad tells my dead beat bil whom i would love to turn in to cps for drugs and will when i leave here as they do them in front of the kids and they go with out becuase of it they always ask my parents for money and my dad now says no as i told why they dont have money! end it now to save your own sanity and health trust me girl the more you loan the more the come back stop it right now period!!!!!!

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