so i went over a month without him until like three days ago. for some reason the fact that he wasnt calling me and begging to come home was just too much. so i  called him and had him come here to talk. of course he sees the whole "breakup" as my fault and sees himself as doing no wrong. i let him stay over night and the next morning he left. i have yet to hear from him since. he said he was gonna be back later that night but like always he lied. i wonder if thats my fault  i just wish i could get over this whole repetitive cycle. as bad as it sounds i wish i could show him how it feels. how he would like it if he were here and i said i was going out to get a hustle going and not return, stay at my friends house ignoring his calls and wearing their clothes instead of coming home and changing into my own. anyways thats whats been going on with me.

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Jun. 1, 2008 at 9:51 AM AWwww hun I can empathize with ya on this one. My first hubby was an absolute jerk. He was in teh army and while in AIT he was dumb enought o call me from a hotel room with 2 girls, claiming they had all got a weekend leave adn the girls were the only ones he could room share with everyone else had roomies for the wkend. What he didnt expect was my big butt showing up in Virginia with teh help of his brothers driving me all night to get there.. I stayed like an idiot and moved to CO where he kept up his crappy ways only I got fed up and moved back home leaving him there... You erally do deserve better..

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Jun. 1, 2008 at 9:54 AM Time to cut the strings, why would you want to be with someone that blames you for his shit.

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