The first day of school our professor introduced himself and challenged us to get to know someone we didn't already know. I stood up to look around when a gentle hand touched my shoulder.  

I turned around to find a wrinkled, little old lady beaming up at me with a smile that lit up her entire being.  

She said, 'Hi handsome. My name is Rose. I'm eighty-seven years old. Can I give you a hug?'  

I laughed and enthusiastically responded, 'Of course you may!' and she gave me a giant squeeze.  

'Why are you in college at such a young, innocent age?' I asked.  

She jokingly replied, 'I'm here to meet a rich husband, get married, and have a couple of kids...'  

'No seriously,' I asked. I was curious what may have motivated her to be taking on this challenge at her age.  

'I always dreamed of having a college education and now I'm getting one!' she told me.  

After class we walked to the student union building and shared a chocolate milkshake.  

We became instant friends. Every day for the next three months we would leave class together and talk nonstop. I was always mesmerized listening to this 'time machine' as she shared her wisdom and experience with me.  

Over the course of the year, Rose became a campus icon and she easily made friends wherever she went. She loved to dress up and she reveled in the attention bestowed upon her from the other students. She was living it up.  

At the end of the semester we invited Rose to speak at our football banquet. I'll never forget what she taught us. She was introduced and stepped up to the podium. As she began to deliver her prepared speech, she dropped her three by five cards on the floor.  

Frustrated and a little embarrassed she leaned into the microphone and simply said, 'I'm sorry I'm so jittery. I gave up beer for Lent and this whiskey is killing me! I'll never get my speech back in order so let me just tell you what I know.'  

As we laughed she cleared her throat and began, ' We do not stop playing because we are old; we grow old because we stop playing.  

There are only four secrets to staying young, being happy, and achieving success. You have to laugh and find humor every day. You've got to have a dream. When you lose your dreams, you die.  

We have so many people walking around who are dead and don't even know it!  

There is a huge difference between growing older and growing up.  

If you are nineteen years old and lie in bed for one full year and don't do one productive thing, you will turn twenty years old. If I am eighty-seven years old and stay in bed for a year and never do anything I will turn eighty-eight.  

Anybody can grow older. That doesn't take any talent or ability. The idea is to grow up by always finding opportunity in change. Have no regrets.  

The elderly usually don't have regrets for what we did, but rather for things we did not do. The only people who fear death are those with regrets.'  

She concluded her speech by courageously singing 'The Rose.'  

She challenged each of us to study the lyrics and live them out in our daily lives. At the year's end Rose finished the college degree she had begun all those years ago.  

One week after graduation Rose died peacefully in her sleep.  

Over two thousand college students attended her funeral in tribute to the wonderful woman who taught by example that it's never too late to be all you can possibly be.  

  We make a Living by what we get. We make a Life by what we give.  

God promises a safe landing, not a calm passage. If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it.  

'Good friends are like stars........You don't always see them, but you know they are always there.'

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Jun. 1, 2008 at 10:36 AM

Thanks for the touching story, I am smiling through my tears because every word you wrote is oh so true.  Thank you for the beautiful post....



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Jun. 1, 2008 at 10:38 AM I've seen this before and it is sooo true! My mom gets so mad at me when I say I don't know what I want to be when I grow up and that is the key. My mom is so wrapped up in What we should do, or act like or aspire to do (be) and all I want to do is have fun and be me. I can still parent. I just don't have to act like my life is over. I'm teaching my kids the value of always learning and to have fun while you are doing it!

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Jun. 2, 2008 at 1:10 PM I have to get some tissue before  I can type this.  I have a degree in geriatrics (studies of the elderly) and people always ask me ,  "Why do you like hanging out with old people"... you have found the answer.  They are wise and filled with spirit.  Thank you for the touching story.  I have recieved a request for a friend from you and I joyfully except that invitation.  I cannot wait to get to know ya better. 

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