IM 5 MONTHS RIGHT NOW. DUE OCTOBER 10TH. MY BF IS LEAVING FOR BASIC TRAINING ON JUNE 23RD. IM GOING TO BE SO LONELY I DON'T KNOW WHAT I WILL DO! HE'LL BE BACK BEFORE THE DUE DATE, BUT IM SO STRESSED OUT AND WORRIED I'LL GO EARLY AND HE WON'T BE HERE. I JUST KEEP TRYING TO CALM MYSELF DOWN AND TELL MYSELF LATE BABIES RUN IN MY FAIMLY, AND IM HAVING A SCHEDUELD C-SECTION SO IT SHOULD BE OK. I JUST CANT DEAL WITH IT ALL!!!!! IM GOING INSANE!!!!

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NicoR
Jun. 1, 2008 at 12:56 PM Hang in there...and what ever you do, try not to get too stressed.  If all goes well, then you guys will be just fine.  Most times with first pregnancies, you usually go past or to your due date(not always, but a lot of women do).  And just lean on your good friends and family to help support you while he's gone.  I'm more than happy tostay in touch with you if you need a friend or just someone to talk to.  

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Rselix08
Jun. 1, 2008 at 12:57 PM When I got pregnant my hubby made me quit my job and he he started working really long hours so i had alot of time to kill. I read ALOT of books. Renew your library card if need be and check out some novels.  Get some cute puzzles and some puzzle glue to help decorate the nursery. Go for an hour long walk once a day to get out of the house. I know its tiring to walk sometimes but Even if its just a stroll to the corner market for some orange juice, the fresh air is nice and you can just stroll and day dream. organize some thoughts. Those are just a few tricks I did when I was pregnant and lonely or bored

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pixie...
Jun. 1, 2008 at 12:59 PM My husband left for basic when I was 8 months along. He missed the birth and the first few weeks of our son's life. So, it could be worse. You'll be all right. Stay with family if you can, that's what I did. Just keep yourself busy, it's only 9 weeks. Good luck and congrats on the baby! =)

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gusti...
Jun. 1, 2008 at 1:29 PM if you are having a scheduled c-section then you will be fine

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