Well I haven't heard back from the bank yet.  I am assuming I didn't get the job for whatever reason.  I am still planning on moving out shortly after Sean gets out of school (which he gets out June 10).  So Chad and I are talking the other day and he asks me what I'm going to do when I move if I am not working at the bank.  I told him I don't know guess I'm stuck in the Cab until I can figure something else out.  Guess what his response was?  Not in MY cab, I need it full time so I can work whenever I want to and support the house on my own.  So, I'm moving with no job now, UNLESS I go talk to someone about leasing a cab for $400.00 a week.  Now this really pisses me off and I want to rip him apart right now.  He wouldn't even have this cab if it weren't for ME!  See I was driving this real rich lady around for quite a while, well we got real close so I asked her if we could borrow $4,000.00 to get our own cab up and running.  She lent us the money- well I did it all in Chad's name cuz he's real good at skipping out on bills and I didn't want her to be able to come after ME for something HE did.  Well I guess I should have put it all in my name, cuz about 2 months later she called me out of the blue and told me to keep that money it is now a gift but for whatever reason she was severing all ties with us.  Well we bought two cars with the intentions of setting up one right away and building the other one.  Well, guess who got the first one that was put together, and guess who gets screwed all together.  Now the car he originally bought he decided he didn't like so he bought another one.  I got the one he doesn't want, but he kept taking parts off it to replace his parts on his car (he didn't have the money at the time but swore he'd replace the parts on MY car) so now thanks to him taking parts off my car and putting back bad parts from his car (which he conveniently can't remember which one of the coils he replaced) I have a piece of crap car that won't start.  So now I have  NO job, NO car and am in a REAL wonderful spot thanks to this JERK screwing me over.  UGH!!!!  I am sooooooooo mad right now!!!!  Then all I keep hearing is how HE wants a bj (he even tried whipping it out in my face and getting me to give him a bj).  This type of stuff is such a turn off for me!!!!!  I am soooooooooo disgusted with him right now!  Sorry I am sure you didn't want to hear about that last part, but that's how selfish this man is!!!!  UGH!!!!! 

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Jun. 1, 2008 at 7:33 PM I am sorry you are having such a hard time! It will get better soon! Just keep your head up and keep going! Prove to him that he cant get you down and that you are worth more than he realized.

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Jun. 1, 2008 at 7:34 PM He sounds like a real gem! Hang in there!!!

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Jun. 2, 2008 at 10:31 AM Don't hang in there! Get out of there. . . Spend time planning your out. You need to get your self and your son out of there, it's going to be hard, its going to be scary, its going to be so worth it in the end. If you are this unhappy all the time, why not change it. You CAN BE HAPPY! You and your son deserve it.

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Jun. 2, 2008 at 3:55 PM Next time he tries "whipping it out in your face" you should bite it the fuck off. 

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Jun. 2, 2008 at 10:23 PM This is a great time to start a whole new life for you and your son. Get out now and you can do it. When I split up from my ex. I worked 2 jobs for 3 years. I did any thing I had to to support my son on my own. Iwent 8 years with no child support. I raised my son on my own. I had to work 70 hours a week for 3 years. But I did it and I was very proud of what I did for my son. You can do it to. Good luck Karen

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Jun. 2, 2008 at 11:36 PM

I'm here for you.  I hear you.  Your plans are well-founded & everything will come as it must to aid you in your new life, because you are claiming for yourself a beautiful, clean, new start in your new life populated only by people who love you, respect you, care about you, admire you, & show it!  Keep looking forward & walking into that brave, beautiful new life, honey!

2 songs that come to mind:  "These Boots Were Made for Walking" & "Future's So Bright, I Gotta Wear Shades"!  LOL!

Love you, love you, love you, girl...Ceci

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Jun. 10, 2008 at 6:59 AM

Hi Heather:

Again, I apologize for this comment coming SO LATE, but I wanted you to know that I'll ALWAYS be here for you hon!! I'm so sorry for the way Chad treats you. Men can be SO selfish!! I know exactly what you're talking about!! Especially about the BJ part! I hate men sometimes. I really do. All they friggin' care about is getting off, I swear!! Sorry, but that's how I feel.

Love Ya!!

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Jun. 11, 2008 at 11:11 PM {{{{}}}}  I'm sorry hon.  I'll keep you in my prayers.  I have no doubt that it will all work out in the end.

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