Seriously why do people think that my kid is not my kid because she has redish blondish hair and I have dark black hair??? It is my natural color hair. Half my side of the family has that coloring. Just because my color is dark does not mean my child is not mine. I get the funnieset looks or when they do ask they say I think she really looks like you but stare at my hair color as if I can not tell they are looking.

OR an even better one is where did the curly hair come from she has curls and I have to say oh grandma had them when she was little. WTF does it matter where my childs looks came from or what you think of them?? I am so tired of having to explaine why and who my child it lol. SHE just is mine.... and I am the mom.

OH and the last one she looks like a boy? WTF seriously you think that??? She is so darn pretty and all. EVEN in pink they say that lol....  

 I just so want to smak some people sometimes. YOU know sometimes it is not ok to come up and say hi even if you want to. EMMA is so darn beautiful but I do not want your hands all over my kid.

 At least ask if it is ok first.


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Jun. 1, 2008 at 5:46 PM

My mom used to say that people would ask if I was a boy even when she dressed me in dresses and put bows in what little hair I had (I was damn bald!).  You know, next time have the conversation go like this:

Rude B**ch:  Wow!  Your daughter, it is a girl right?  Her hair is so unlike yours....where does she get the curls and the red coloring?

You:  Well, no, it's acutally a boy - I was inspired by the song "A Boy Named Sue" but I prefer the name Emma.  As for her hair, well I'm pretty sure that her daddy had red hair, but I was so damn drunk I can't rightly remember if her daddy was the one with red hair or the curls.  I'm guessing both by the way she looks.  Whaddya think?

That'll shut them up!  lol

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Jun. 1, 2008 at 5:48 PM ROTFLMAO thanks for that made me laugh.

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Jun. 1, 2008 at 6:19 PM Glad I could help!  I too am tired of rude people.  I have found that embarassing the hell out of them is the quickest way to shut them up. 

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Jun. 1, 2008 at 6:39 PM People are stupid. My Aunt and Uncle both have jet black hair, all 3 of their kids is as blonde as the day is long!

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Jun. 1, 2008 at 7:39 PM I'm sorry...some people just don't know when to stay quiet! Grrr!

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Jun. 2, 2008 at 10:11 AM

alot of people don't know how to mind their own business these days. This is exactly why stupid people should not breed.

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Jun. 3, 2008 at 11:25 PM People can be so rude. I hate how they touch my kid in the face all the time too. Lukas was screaming one day and a lady kept touching his cheeks and such and I want to say stop. He had RSV and I think it was from strangers touching him. Next kid I am going to politely say please don't touch my kids face.

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