LOL I had my 2nd baby dream last night and I dreamt that we had a boy again, my first one I also dreamt we had a boy. I am really hoping that I get the opposite LOL... I love my son and all, but ever since I was little I dreamed about having a little girl, someone that I could dress up and paint her nails and do stuff with. I will cry if I find out its another boy, but I guess I will have to get over it, I think it will hurt me more because this is our last baby and I wont feel "complete" if that makes sense. LOL Well thanks for letting me vent.

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Jun. 2, 2008 at 3:11 PM I've felt that way on and off. I'd love to have a girl, but I've enjoyed having my son so much. I was looking at baby pictures of him and I realized that I couldn't be more in love! I think a lot of us grow-up wanting girls. It's perfectly normal to feel that way. You want to share your girly side. This is my last baby too, so I completely understand how you feel. My husband is so worried that I'm going to want to have another if this baby is for sure a boy. lol. Honestly I know he decided to have a second only because I wanted one so badly. If it would have been completely up to him he wouldn't have had a second, so there's no way I'd do that to him. Everything will work-out and be just fine. I keep thinking to myself, Cam has no other chance to have a little brother, so another boy wouldn't be so bad. ;)

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Jun. 2, 2008 at 5:42 PM well the same thing happened to me. i also wanted a little girl sooo bad. but it turned out to be another little boy. i also had a dream, and i dreamt that i gave birth to a little boy and that was before i found out the gender... i was so upset at first i cried, but you know what know it doesnt even matter, i just thank god each and every day for giving me the opportunity of getting pregnant again and i just pray that my baby boy comes strong and healthy and with all of his fingers and toes. not one less or not an extra, lol! and since this is my last baby also, well i did get a little upset. but hey, think of it this way, there is always a reason to why god does what he does. cheer up sweety! i have my fingers crossed for you! 

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Jun. 6, 2008 at 10:51 PM dont worry. God will give you what your meant to have. When I had my first boy, I was so upset, but now its weird to think I'm going to actually have a girl. I hope you do get what you want though! =)

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Jun. 26, 2008 at 8:11 AM

It is funny how things work ou! I wanted a boy soooo bad! I felt like I was a boy mom. But no, I am having my 3rd girl!! LOL She is my last and although I know my dh wanted a boy - he does not want any more kids so... I will have my hands full with my 3 beautiful girls!

Good Luck - there may be brief disappointment but then it will be a celebration of the new family member!

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