She finally cut the cord....I wrote a post awhile back concerned about telling my mother that I am ready to move out of the house. well she finally cut the cord!! she came to me yesterday and spoke to me about me moving. she said that she understands that I need my own space and that there was not any room for two women in the house, which she was very right. she saw  a place for me and picked up an application for me,it is a housing complex  that is based on income, it's not the projects,thank God, and it's in a decent area. she reassured me that I can always come back home but it's time for me to move on to the next faze of my life.  everything I have been feeling and dealing with she already knew. it's so funny because all this time I thought she would not understand me and she knew exactly what I was feeling. I guess your mother will always be your  mother even when you become a mother. It's just a relief to know that she understands and I don't have to hide it anymore or worry about hurting her feelings. So the search is really on now.....wish me luck!!

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Jun. 2, 2008 at 12:25 PM That's great! I hope you will be happy in you new place. I've been there, done that and glad your mom understood too.

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Jun. 2, 2008 at 12:45 PM Good luck!!  Pray on it.

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