Well yesterday my mom and step dad picked me up to go to there outside (my hubby was at work)  so they can visit with the baby. It was the first time I saw them since I told them I was pregnant. After dealing with the baby, getting the car-seat in and calming her down (she thought these strangers were taking her away lol), we drove off. First thing my step dad said was...." so you decided what color your soccer van is going to look like," I just rolled my eyes and didn't say anything. "Well Mom said, your going either going to have twins or having one but going to lose it. She had a dream about it." I was getting mad. I thought...'Wow you ass! that's such as nice thing to say in my condition. Thanks, you made my day.' I ended up telling him "well we saw there's only one in there." He said " that 's what mom said, your going to lose it then." My mom has a dream of me losing it, so he assumes that's what going to happen. My mom is very spiritual by the way. She full Native American and yeah she has visions but most of them don't come true. She had a dream that my older sister was pregnant before I even told her I was. So what makes you think that vision will come true....AND if it does.....why do you tell me that? Not only am I going to freak out, but that damages my self esteem since I'm now excited about this pregnancy. If I was a Psychic or something, and I knew someone pregnant and I knew she was going to lose it.... I wouldn't tell her because she'll be dreading that day she does. But since its my step dad, and he's an asshole anyways, I'm just going to live on like I never heard him say that. Even though its in the back of my mind. But my mom said it was going to be a girl....so we'll see if that part is true. I think I find out next visit. I'll be about 16 weeks.

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Jun. 2, 2008 at 12:56 PM I'm sorry they said that stuff to you. I wish you nothing but Luck and best wishes!!

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Jun. 2, 2008 at 12:58 PM

I'm sorry he said something like that to you, that was way out of line. Best wishes to you and your growing family!

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Jun. 2, 2008 at 12:58 PM congrads!!onthe baby that is keep us posted  your little girl is very cute

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