I don't have pictures because I can't put my families safety in danger.  People that know us by sight don't know the type of lifestyle we lead.  With my husband's position, they can't know.  Since I am his 'head' wife, I have the responsibility to remain discreet with everything I do.  I can't risk our family being outed just because I need a place to free my brain.

I'm sorry if that bothers any of you, but that's the way it has to be until this country is more accepting of others choices. 

ALSO, while I'm on the topic...STOP SENDING ME HATE MAIL!

I really don't appreciate to get on the computer and see mail saying that my family is going to burn in hell for all eternity.  I have done nothing to you, there is no reason to take that sort of anger towards my family and me.

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Jun. 2, 2008 at 1:47 PM Good for you!  I like it when people are strong enough to live their lives as they see fit!  Hugs!

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Jun. 2, 2008 at 2:28 PM I completley understand.  I wouldn't want to take that chance either.

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Jun. 2, 2008 at 3:33 PM People are really sending you hate mail?  Man, i am so sorry.  Do what ever you need to do for you and your family.  Screw every body else.

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Jun. 5, 2008 at 8:48 PM that makes sense to me.  it is ashame how our country is so ingorant to things and not willing to educate themselves.  I hope people will stop sending you hate email.

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Jun. 8, 2008 at 3:30 PM

Hey there Lady. So sorry that people are sending you hate mail. People just need to grown up. Be proud for standing up for what you believe in.  I don't blame you for not posting pictures of little ones esp. with ignorant people out there. All I have to say is welcome!

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Jun. 8, 2008 at 4:00 PM

this world is so full of judgemental people.......about many things.......I am bipolar and deal with judgemental people every day of my life.........it stinks.......it's wrong........and  it all comes back on those who judge......and those who judge are usually christian.......who should know judge not lest ye be judged.......and this is coming from an atheist.......and I expect you would not judge me either.........everyone must live their lives according to where their hearts and minds lead them.......it is a shame that you must be afraid to post pictures of what I am sure is a beautiful family..........I wish you all the best........and I wish indifference....ignorance.......pettiness......hatred.......judgements.......and all other ugly things could be wiped away..........but they won't be.......as humans we are too cruel.......too selfish....too nosy........and ALWAYS too judgemental of what we do not even begin to understand.....

peace and love


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Jun. 8, 2008 at 8:33 PM i agree with youcant be too careful these days

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Jun. 10, 2008 at 5:24 PM *hugs* you know your always welcome with open arms in my group and no one will say anything bad to you :)

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Jun. 11, 2008 at 4:39 PM I love meeting many people all with different life styles.  No matter what life style we choose, we will never please everyone.  So I say live the life that is best for you and your family.  If you are happy and the kids are well, then forget all the others.  Be well. 

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