I HAD to do this without anyone knowing who I am since there are people that I don't want to know that I am unhappy. I have been thinking about leaving my husband. But I don't know how to do it or if I really should. I am just not happy. Like deep down in the gut happy, you know? I have been feeling like this for months on and off. I don't know what to do. It's not like he is a bad guy or a bad dad. Sure there are things that he does that really pisses me off but won't anyone do that? But I can't stand living with the guilt that I carry around. I feel guilty that I can't be honest and tell him how I am feeling. I don't know what to do.

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Jun. 2, 2008 at 2:39 PM

It is a horrible place to be and yes alot of women often feel this way. It could be boredom, respect whatever makes you feel this way is truly understandable...But a couple of things you need to focus on and think about. Are you happy with yourself ? Sometimes we tend to take out our feelings on someone else if we have a negative feeling about ourselves....When you "make a decision to move forward without him". Do you have an idea as to what will make you happy ? What do you expect to get when you are single again?

If he IS a good husband and father, it is worth keeping. You need to talk to him about what's going on in my head. Don't say your leaving. Tell him your not satisfied and you don't know what to do....If your friends with him talk...Maybe he feels the same way and opening these doors in NOT terrible, it's normal...I am married 20years and that's comes with alot of disappointment, confusion, bumpy roads, horrible moments....Anything worth keeping sometimes comes with alot of heartache.

I wish you all the luck in the world, and if you need to talk more. Send me an E-mail.....I have my own war stories and it might help you see that the "grass isn't always greener"....GOOD LUCK SWEETIE

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Jun. 2, 2008 at 4:03 PM i think i would try marriage counsling first and then if that dosnt work save my money and leave

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